The Marriage Scam, and the Romantic...
Marriage has always been less about love than it is about labor, lineage, and legacy. Across cultures and centuries—from Tudor queens cast aside for failing to produce heirs, to poor...
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How Hypersexuality Masks Dysregulation in Neurodivergent...
Three years ago, I thought I was just highly sexual. But what I was really chasing wasn’t pleasure—it was regulation. Like many neurodivergent people, I confused desire with dopamine. And...
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Growing Pains: The Seduction of Suffering—and...
Suffering, when prolonged, can become neurologically and psychologically addictive. Emotional pain activates the same neural pathways as physical pain, which explains why many people—especially trauma survivors—become habituated to their own...
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The Disappearance of Eroticism: What We...
Most people don’t know the difference between sexuality and eroticism—and maybe that’s by design. In a culture built on fast pleasure and packaged intimacy, true eroticism has become a lost...
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Why Your Dom/Sub Dynamic Might Be...
Sometimes we think we’re surrendering, when really, we’re just collapsing. Kink can be beautiful—but only if it’s conscious. This piece is about how Dom/sub dynamics can unknowingly activate childhood trauma,...
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I Love Women— But I Don’t...
A raw, reflective essay exploring the complexities of queer desire, internalized shame, and racialized dynamics in lesbian relationships. This deeply personal piece follows the author’s journey through exclusion, projection, and...
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What Is a Woman, Anyway? And...
When I was about 12, my mother and stepfather asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wasn’t allowed to say the word so I asked...
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I’m a Misandrist—But I Still Fantasize...
I’m a misandrist—and a hopeless romantic. That’s the contradiction I wake up with every day.I don’t believe in traditional relationships. I know marriage was never meant to be about love—it...
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When Love Feels Like a Loop:...
You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. You’re just repeating what your body memorized a long time ago. This is about the love patterns we don’t even realize we’re in—until our...
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Embodied: Why Talk Therapy Didn’t Save...
I thought I was healing because I could intellectualize my emotions. I didn’t even know you could feel feelings in your body—I thought emotions only lived in your head. But...
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Weaponized Empowerment: The truth about sex...
Becoming a sex worker was a choice—for me. It was intentional, sensual, even sacred. I dreamed of becoming someone unforgettable, someone powerful in her softness. But when I became a...
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Cheek Encounters: Pegging, Power Play &...
Of course! Here’s a polished excerpt you can use for your Instagram caption, Substack preview, or blog intro: Excerpt from Cheeky & Pegging: Power in the Art of Receiving By...
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You Can’t Love Them Into Loving...
You can love someone with everything you have—your time, your energy, your heart—and still not be loved in return. Not because you’re unworthy, but because they’re unavailable. You cannot love...
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Play Parties Through a Neurodivergent Lens:...
Play parties can be beautiful, expansive, and deeply human—but when you’re neurodivergent, they require a different kind of preparation. For me, I try to be mindfulof my expectations—if any. I...
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