A very sexy guide to BDSM: Types of BDSM and practice tips

Written by Vudu Dahl

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Posted on November 21 2022

Are you interested in exploring BDSM but don't know where to start? Well, this guide is for you! Here's everything you need to know about the different types of BDSM, what it involves and how to do it safely. After all, safety is key in the pursuit of pleasure! 

What is BDSM?
You probably know what BDSM is or you might have heard the myths that give BDSM a bad rep. BDSM isn’t just about kinky sex or depravity, it’s about building intimacy and trust between partners through exploration, surrender of power and vulnerability. In it’s true nature, it’s considered an art form.

  • BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It is a combination of four separate activities: role-playing, physical stimulation and power play. BDSM can happen between people who are in an intimate relationship or strangers (known as “play”), although it's usually practiced in private by parties who have agreed on a set of rules beforehand. Most commonly though? It happens in bedrooms around the world every day!
  • BDSM isn't just about sex—it's more about power exchange between partners where one takes control over another using bondage techniques like restraints or blindfolds; spanking; whipping; sensation play including clamps placed on parts of the body such as nipples or genitals; flogging (being hit with various implements); role playing scenarios involving domination/submission roles such as teacher/student or doctor/patient etcetera...

Benefits of practicing BDSM
There are many benefits to practicing BDSM. It can be a great way to explore and discover your sexuality, learn more about yourself and your partner, feel more confident in bed, and feel closer to each other.

Styles of BDSM
BDSM, is a broad term that covers a wide range of sexual practices. It stands for bondage, domination and submission and sadism and masochism. BDSM can be enacted in many ways, both physically and emotionally; it's not always about sex. For example: someone might enjoy being flogged but would never consider themselves part of the BDSM community simply because they do not want to be tied up or engage in any other sort of physical discipline.

So what's the difference between bondage and discipline? Bondage involves physically restraining someone through different methods—such as ropes or handcuffs—and then taking advantage of their immobility by inflicting pain on them (which is known as "sadomasochism"). On the other hand, discipline involves punishing someone with spanking (or another method) when they have done something wrong; this form of punishment isn't necessarily accompanied by sexual arousal on either side involved (although it can still fall under the umbrella definition).


How to practise BDSM safely
In order for BDSM to be safe, you must obtain consent from your partner. You must ensure that the consent is given freely and continuously throughout the session. This means that if you want to do something, you should ask for permission before doing it and continue asking until they tell you what they want out of their experience with you.


Asking questions like “Do I have permission to do this?” are essential because they show that your partner has ownership over their own body and choices. If someone says no or is reluctant to answer, then back off until they give an affirmative response before continuing with what you were doing previously.
It's important not only that your partner gives explicit consent but also suggests ideas of what they would like during playtime as well! This can help build trust between both partners so there's no room for miscommunication later on down the road when things become heated (in a good way).

Bondage and other elements of BDSM can be very sexy as long as you engage in it respectfully.
BDSM isn't just about whips and chains. While these two things are often associated with BDSM, they're only a small part of it. In fact, many people who practice BDSM don't use whips or chains at all—they might use ropes instead, or even nothing at all.
But no matter how you practice your chosen kink, there are some important rules you should remember: respect is key! Safety comes first! Consent is crucial! Consent can be withdrawn at any time without notice (so make sure you check in regularly). Those are the biggies—the most important things to remember when engaging in BDSM play is that it's about mutual consent and mutual respect for both partners' limits and boundaries.

With the right mindset, BDSM can be a very fulfilling way to spice up your sex life. It’s not just about tying someone up, it’s about exploring new ways of connecting with another person and bringing out their inner wildness or vulnerability. It’s also not just about spanking, it’s about taking care of each other in a way that creates more intimacy in the relationship.

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